How much previous writing experience do I need to participate?
None! We welcome everyone regardless of experience because TNM is not a writing class. Rather, the focus is on putting aside your self-consciousness and allowing your infinite imagination to lead you.

 

How much do I have to write?

You write for a total of 14 minutes in 2 sections. You can write as little as you want, but no more than a total of one page or 500 words.

 

What writing materials do I need?
You may write on any device or use old-fashioned pen and paper. This is for you, so do it your way.

 

Do I have to write to the prompts that are given?
The prompts are meant to be a jumping-off point. Take them anywhere at all. You may write in any style, and in any voice you choose.

 

Do I have to share what I’ve written?

Yes! By choosing to join the TNM writing salons, you are choosing to participate. We don’t allow observers because it’s not fair to everyone else who is sharing.

 

Will my writing be critiqued?

No! We are here to share without criticism or compliments, to simply witness each other with an open heart and appreciation for wherever your imagination leads you.

 

What do I say in the small breakout room after someone has finished reading?

Absolutely nothing. We are there to witness each other without feedback, critiques or fixing. It may seem counterintuitive, but a compliment can run the same risk as a critique, taking us out of the safety of just being witnessed and appreciated. It also spares the listener from the pressure to say something.

 

What do we do once everyone has finished reading?

After everyone in your breakout has read, allow the conversation to go where it will. You are welcome to share about your own writing process, talk about the concept of the week, the prompt, or your own feelings. Speak only for yourself, and allow others to do the same. And please, no probing questions or self-promotion.

 

What if someone in my breakout room seems like they are in distress?

If someone seems in distress, you can ask if they are okay. Sometimes that is enough to make someone feel better. Or if they share, listen respectfully without interpreting or offering advice.  If necessary, click “Ask for Help” in the meeting controls. Confirm that you would like assistance by clicking “Invite Host.”

 

What is The Mosaic?

The mosaic follows the breakouts. Everyone shares one of the sentences they’ve just written in rapid-fire, creating yet another, completely unpredictable story. The entire “story” will appear on our FB page in about a week.

 

Will the salons be recorded so we can do the writing later if we miss it?

For the safety and confidentiality of all participants, the online writing salons are rarely recorded, and you will be notified in the event they are.

 

Can I join the Zoom meeting from my phone?
You may join from any device that has access to Zoom. However, we encourage you to join from a computer if possible since phones don’t always allow you to go into breakout rooms.

 

I was not let in from the waiting room

We close the doors promptly so that everyone can start together.  Please join us another time.  Here's the link to sign up: https://www.thenarrativemethod.org/salons​

 

Can I come back to the Zoom meeting if my wifi tossed me off?

Yes, please do try! We know it’s frustrating and we do our best to help you return but the technology is limited so please bear with us.

 

Does my camera have to be on?
Yes, your video must remain on at all times except while writing. It is not fair to ask others to share their stories and thoughts to people they cannot see. If you cannot keep your camera on we will notify you a few times and then remove you for this session. But no hard feelings! Please come back again anytime your tech is working.

 

What does it mean if I am removed from a salon?

Cameras are required to participate, and unfortunately, you will be removed if you cannot keep yours on for any reason. The other reason participants would be removed is for inappropriate behavior, refusing to follow protocol or using hate speech.

 

How do I know what the Core Concept of the Week is?

The Core Concept of the Week is shared just before the prompts. They also appear in our weekly emails.

 

How do I sign up for TNM’s regular emails?

Sign up for an upcoming writing salon or subscribe at the bottom of our homepage.

 

Do I have to commit every week, or can I come whenever I choose?
The Narrative Method is here for you whenever you’d like to join! There are no obligations or strings attached.

 

Do I need to cancel my sign up if I can no longer attend?

There’s no need to cancel. We will look forward to seeing you next time!

 

GENERAL INFO

 

Who created The Narrative Method?

Shari Foos founded The Narrative Method in 2012 in response to the Crisis of Connection. Shari is a marriage and family therapist with degrees in Narrative Medicine (Columbia University) and Clinical Psychology (Antioch University).

 

What inspired The Narrative Method?

The Narrative method is inspired by the values of social justice and influenced by people and concepts across many paradigms including psychology, sociology, philosophy and the dream of peace on earth.

 

How is the Narrative Method different from psychotherapy?

The Narrative Method is not psychotherapy. Rather, it is a non-hierarchical practice. We honor individual differences and do not pathologize, diagnose or solve participants’ problems. Rather we empathize with the challenge of maintaining our humanity in this technological world.

 

What are the 12 Core Concepts?

TNM’s 12 Core Concepts provide tools and perspectives to cope with life’s stressors and the pressure to conform. Each concept is designed to help you go deeper, and better understand yourself and others.

 

How is the Narrative Method funded?

TNM is a nonprofit organization funded by your donations, private contributions, foundation grants, and our online shop that sells DIY human cards and other goods. To visit the shop, click here.

 

Where can I send a donation?

Thanks for asking! To make a donation, click here.

 

Does The Narrative Method hold in-person events?

Yes! Prior to the COVID pandemic, The Narrative Method was made up of all in-person events. Stay up-to-date on special events by subscribing to The Narrative Method email list.

 

Can I book The Narrative Method experience for my event?

Yes! Email your inquiry to info@thenarrativemethod.org. We look forward to connecting with you!

 

How can I book Shari Foos as a speaker?

For speaking engagements or to bring Shari to your event, please email your inquiry to info@thenarrativemethod.org.